When you first decide to change your way of thinking it can be very overwhelming, especially when you aren't even aware of what negative thoughts and beliefs you are currently holding on to. I know when I started really taking my subconscious reprogramming seriously, I used to get frustrated because it was like I was starting from scratch and didn't know where to begin. It made the journey a little frustrating to say the least, luckily, I had loads of unhealed trauma, so every time I was triggered, I would sit with the pain and inevitably trace it back to the trauma it stemmed from. With every trauma, a self-limiting belief came with it. The thing about beliefs is that they can be changed, even subconscious ones. 

This page is categorized by specific childhood wounds/self-limiting beliefs that you may be trying to heal from and reprogram. For every wound, there will be affirmations intended to heal from that wound and reprogram your subconscious mind from a positive perspective. If any of our products align with healing that specific wound, it will be listed under the corresponding category. Even if you are not able to purchase any of our products at this time, please feel free to use this page as much as you need while on your healing journey. We created it to help those who are trying to heal but don’t know how or where to start. We suffered alone so you won't have to. May this page provide more insight and clarity on what you need to heal from and give you the resources and tools needed to get you started on your journey.

Safety can be defined as ‘the condition of being protected from or unlikely to cause danger, risk, or injury’. As someone with pretty severe anxiety, I think of safety as the absence of the feeling of impending doom. Before I healed and programmed my subconscious to feel safe at all times, I was on a constant state of danger and fear. No matter what I did I could not relax or feel comfortable for anything, Clearly my constant state of fear was caused from childhood traumas I hadn;t processed and healed from. As a child I never felt safe and it always felt like I was just waiting for the next person to come and hurt me. I hadn’t realized that I had internalized this feeling and it was what drove my subconscious until I started to do shadow work. When I found myself triggered feeling unsafe and uncomfortable I would sit with the feelings and ask where it stemmed from. Eventually it lead me to quite a few traumas that I clearly hadn’t healed from. The most transformative way I was able to heal and reprogram my subconscious mind to feel safe was by telling myself that I am an adult, I am no longer the helpless little girl being hurt praying for a savior, I am a grown, independent woman who is more than capable of keeping herself safe, also another realization that helped with my healing was the realization that as an adult I am in charge of who I let in my energy and I don’t associate with people that I have to doubt or second guess. It didn’t happen overnight but I did successfully heal and reprogram my subconscious to know that we are safe and have nothing to fear. If you find yourself constantly feeling unsafe and/or uncomfortable I hope these affirmations, as well as the products that broadcast these affirmations, can help you know that you are safe wherever you go regardless of what’s happened in your past. 

Safety Affirmations

I am safe.

There is no need to worry, all is well.

I am capable of solving any problem that comes my way.

I have the strength and discernment needed to keep myself safe. 

I take every breath with ease because I live a life of relief.

Love can be defined as ‘an intense feeling of deep affection:’ the image of fluttering butterflies in your stomach may come to mind, but that’s more of infatuation which can be temporary and fleeting. Love is deeper and more stable than just warm feelings that can pass over. For me love is the acceptance, embracement and appreciation for something or someone. In this day and age there seems to be a confusion for love with infatuation. Infatuation is fun and feels good and can make you put an idealized version of someone or something on a pedestal, but infatuation almost always has an expiration date because in the real-world perfection doesn’t exist, so when we create idealized version of people and things in out head we are setting ourselves up for disappointment because perfection is an expectation that nothing and nobody can meet. Love, on the other hand gives us the freedom to be ourselves without worrying about judgment or ostracisation. Love is knowing that someone isn’t perfect and still embracing, accepting and seeing the value in who they are. While so many of us are concerned about romantic love, self-love is the most important and is where the blueprint for all other loves is designed. Loving yourself is giving yourself grace in the face of your imperfections and seeing the value in yourself in spite of those imperfections. Someone who loves themselves doesn’t hold themselves to an impossible standard and they don’t punish themselves when that standard isn’t meant. Loving yourself is doing the things that bring you joy and leaving alone the things and people that bring you misery. When you love someone, you want the best for them. When you love yourself, you want the best for yourself and give yourself the freedom to go after it. A life void of self-love will manifest as toxic relationships, codependency, self-hatred and self-sabotage.

Love Affirmations

I accept myself as I am.

I am loved from the inside-out.

I love myself and live a life that fosters that love.

I respond to any situation that comes my way with love.

I am worthy just as I am. Flaws are a sign of humanity and I embrace them in myself and others.